This is from another blogger about the quater life crisis that she is having.
For personal opinion, I have been thinking that I might be experiencing the quater life crisis as well.
It is funny that only twenty something people started having a life crisis already. But when you see this in opposite angle, this means that the young people are now facing hard decision to make, struggling to survive, and trying to compete with friends. Within this competitive worlds, the young people started to think that many questions regarding themselves or the world.
Here are some related questions that I have for my quarter life crisis:
- – who am I
- – what am I
- – what is the goal of my life
- – what am I living for
- – where is the happiness coming from
- – do I have to follow that what the world framed
- – and… so on.
The blogger talked about several things like happiness vs. fulfillment, goal settings, and bucket list.
I agree with some points but some are not because it is personal opinion.
“Everybody know it hurts to grow up” – Still fighting it by Ben Folds
For me, I am still finding my happiness of life and the standard of fulfillment. How can I define the happiness and fulfillment is very important on how I satisfy with myself and my life. About the bucket list, I always have been trying to list it but I could not. I just have a short-term bucket list. Having a bucket list would also help overcome the quarter life crisis because it lead to find the joy of my life and the origin of happiness. This may be possible because the bucket list doesn’t have to be work-related or career-related. It can be bungee jumping or eating very spicy food. By cross out each list from the bucket list, I might feel the fulfillment. And about goal setting, I may say this is the hard one. I am still not sure what is my goal of life. That’s why sometime I feel so jealous someone who already found their life goals. However, the fact that I don’t have my goal of life for sure, doesn’t mean I am behind them. I am just finding slowly. I hope the time difference that I have to spend extra to find the goal is not waste time. I deeply hope it.
The quarter life crisis that I am experiencing or other young people experience is reflection of the society that expects too much from them, or that makes them to fight and compete each other. This discourages to find the meaning of life sometimes. So I hope any young people like me finding the meaning of life and overcome the quarter life crisis.
I seem to be having what one might call a “quarter-life” crisis. Not that I’ve been out buying ridiculous cars or ordering prostitutes, but I’ve been having some serious doubts that one would expect to have during the more common mid-life crisis. I’ve come to a point in my life where I can clearly see my future, and I’ve begun to realize more and more how thoroughly I dislike what I see.
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